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On Wednesday my ex n I agreed to me having my son Tuesday and Friday from 4:15pm right through to Saturday till 4:15pm. The three worships and her solicitor agreed to this, and it starts with immediate effect.
I've received an email now (from my ex) saying Kian needs his own bed, fresh set of cloths as he shouldn't be going to pre-school with an over night bag and dirty cloths. Who takes there child to pre-school after 4:15pm on a Saturday!
I've been Iinformed that its ok for Kian to sleep in my bed whilst I sleep in the room, next door and next week, he'll have his own bed.
Is my ex in breach of our court order?
Thank you
Strictly speaking she is...contact her and state that he will have exclusive use of your bed with clean sheets, which was agreed in court, and his own bed from next week. Remind her that there is no pre-school on Saturday so her comments do not apply. Remind her that she is in breach if she doesn't comply and make it clear that you will be expecting the overnight stay to go ahead as ordered.
Call her solicitor now and ask them to call their client to remind her that she agreed in court to the contact and what the repercussions will be if she breaches the order.
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