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I find it hard to believe in the world we live in today.
That women want the same rights as men and they do now. But when it comes down to children women have more rights ! Or I'm a wrong?
I feel that a child needs both mum and dad the same and even if people spilt up that parents should put what ever emotions they have to one side for sake of there children.
Because the only person who get hurts is the children.
Parents should be strong and put the child first and get on with there is ex to show the children whatever happens in life for whatever reason they have both parents that love them and want the best for them..
At the end of the day both parents wanted a baby together so put emotionas to one side and get on for your children
Hi
I agree to a point with your comments and also sympathise with you.
Not all children go to stay with their mother, but unfortunately it's normally the case and Dads can get a raw deal depending on how the ex wants to play it.
I totally agree with you saying that you should try to hide emotions and get on for the sake of the children; easier said than done for some though and kids do get used as weapons.
If only people can see their actions through self awareness, then I think they wouldn't act in such rash ways, especially involving children.