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Hi, new here
i have been having issues within my marriage for a number of years and it’s getting way to much however, I pay all the bills including the mortgage but feel I need to get out because the constant arguing is affecting me.
what help is out there even temporary accommodation before finally going through with divorce, as can’t afford 2 sets of bils
I'm sorry to hear your marriage isn't working. Have you thought of marriage counselling? If the marriage is definitely over, then you may find mediation would be a way to sort out the finances. You can find a local mediator on the Family Mediation Service website. It will be cheaper and quicker than using solicitors. You could live in the same property while this is being sorted. Are there children as this will affect how you deal with everything? Is domestic abuse involved? There are refuges for women fleeing domestic abuse but limited for men. You can contact the Men's Advice Line on 0808 801 0327. First step though will be to let your partner know what you are thinking.
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