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There’s no problem writing up the agreement yourself, you can add that days and times are flexible and can be added to or changed as agreed, in the best interests of the children.
I understand totally what you’re saying about working together, but that takes both parents in agreement with that... by the sound of it she isn’t onboard with it and for that reason you may need something legally binding.
Best of luck
Put simply, if you can work well together, then you don't need to draft anything in writing, and the fact that you are wondering whether you can write it yourself means that there must be at least some disagreements, so I would definitely follow mojo's advice on this.
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