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Hi All.
I'd like to ask if anybody could answer a couple of things for me?
I have a contact order in place which states that my son should be made available every sunday 10 till 4pm
So his mum has taken him away and planes on doing so again in a couple of months time for two weeks
which will mean I dont get to see my son for those two sundays and she has informed me that she doesn't need to make up that time lost.
Now If anybody could shed some light on this it would be really helpful as im sure any time lost has to be made upbecause she is taking him away in my time HELP!!!!
Thanks Billy
Its tricky, she can take your son on holidays, and if it's only occasional, trying to get the order enforced may be counter productive. If it really does look like she's doing it to prevent access, then you certainly need to do something.
Hi
Thank you for your advice will have to see how it goes but she's been funny in the past so time will tell.
Thanks again
It may be worth seeing if you can work something out well in advance, at a time when she hasn't got anything planned.
Hi
Well I've trie that in the past and it always seems to have to be on her terms isit me or are most ex's like this?
I've got some dates worked out but all I get is that her mum is taking my son away dont know who else is going where there going or even where there flying from a total close down of giving me the dad any info regarding our son.
I may have to get a solicitors letter sent just to remind her that I have full PR when I have my son on a sunday for six hours she always texts to see as she puts it how her boy is daft I know but this is the kind of person Im dealing with.
I'll give your surggestion a go fingers crossed.
Thanks again for reading.
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