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frankly you will need to keep your partner under control, or she could cause big problems for you in future.
also send this to both of them 🙂
It might be worth pointing out to your partner that if she continues this behaviour, and the police get involved, it will almost certainly affect her enhanced DBS check.
Thanks for all your replies, I am going to proceed forward with not involving my partner with my children until things settle down. (However long that takes). I am going to start divorce proceedings with the ex which hopefully we can do ourselves as we both don’t want to pay exterminate money to solicitors. Fingers crossed
... I think that’s a sensible approach, it might be a good idea to talk to your gf about the consequences of her actions and what you can both do as a couple, to stop it happening again.
There’s a time for fun and partying and a time for family... your gf will need to understand that if your relationship is to last.
All the best
There are specialist companies that do all of the paperwork for a fraction of the cost of a solicitor - I used one and it was definitely worthwhile.
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