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Hi All,
Firstly, great site! I'm new and already loving it.
I have a new baby coming in February, life is good but I'm really worried about money!
Can anyone explain to me like I'm five years old the current state of benefits and paternity pay for 2 full time working adults earning a combined income of over £50k. My wifes maternity pay has been explained by her work which is fine but I'm self employed so unsure if there's anything available to me.
Also, is there anything else financially that I should be aware of? Any sort of free or contributions towards things like child care, health care, dental care, child equipment and food etc.
I know this all sounds very thrifty and I'm aware that we are by no means as bad off as many but our cost of living is really high where we live and this is all very new to me.
Thanks in advance!
Edit:
P.S. We live in Northern Ireland
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