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Just going hard time with the separation/divorce and any advice assistance would help me through it
Thanks
Hi markkelsall,
Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear your having such a hard time - I'm sure the DadTalk community will be more than happy to offer sage words to you. I'm looking forward to your posts.
Gooner
Hi have two boys aged 6 and nearly 9 been together for 14 years and married for 11, my wife came back 3 weeks ago and said that she wanted a separation house sold etc. I asked if there was anyone else involved but she was adamant there wasn't. We have had are ups and down but at Christmas I had a chat to her and said we have two options, either separate or work at our marriage? she told me that she want to make a go of it and we were so happy over the next 3.5 months this has come as a terrible blow (out of the blue).
A week later I received an email from HIS ex partner saying my wife is having an affair with her long time partner (14 years) he also has a little girl aged 8, I confronted my wife and she freely admits to the affair. Its been terrible because she works away alot with her job and she has told me that she is meeting up with this guy, she also has been away at weekends with him.
Main point she want to be the principle partner when we get divorced and I want joint. any advice??????
Thanks for the help
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