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My situation is that ive a 14 year old daughter who stays over every friday. My ex is always mithering to me she needs more money of me . I pay her a set amount per month. On top of what i pay , i buy clothes , shoes, days out , spends . etc. Does the csa take all this into account when calculating how much u should pay. thanks jeff
Hi,
Have you & your ex worked out payments through the CSA? They work out what you should pay based on what you earn. Are you talking about the extra things you pay for when she's with you? FYI there is a money section to the Forum where you can post further questions & where you may find previous posts on their helpful, from Dads who are in a similar situation to yours.
Sorry, should have said 'Finance' section of the Forum, instead of 'Money'. Hope you find it useful! 🙂
Hi Jeff
Have you looked at the guide in the top banner on this page - It is a new guide for dads about the CSA and may help you
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