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hi,
she can say she wants zero contact. but courts can decide something else. its up to you. it will be a bumpy ride. if you want the baby to be a part of your life, there is no harm in applying to courts. there have been other dads in similar situation, that didnt have a good record. they had to jump through lot of hoops and got there in the end.
Feel like an idiot ever opening up.
You should not feel like an idiot for opening up, it's just that now she feels threatened. In a way you could say you opened up to the wrong person.
I want you to seriously consider going to your GP and asking for a referral for counselling services, because reading through your posts, opening up sounds exactly like what you need.
If you don't get anywhere with the GP, consider talking to Beata at http://pegasusmenswellbeing.co.uk/about-pegasus-cornwall/ . She is very good and prices her service according to your income.
Another option when you need to talk about things is to call the samaritans on 116123 ( https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/).
Doing this will strengthen your case. You will be able to say, yes I've had these problems, and this is what I'm doing about it.
- Samaritans – call 116 123
- Shout – text the word ‘Shout’ to 85258
