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Hey all 🙂
John here from all the way up on sunny (lol) Isle of Lewis.
Separated last February, was me that left her after I realised I had been there for the past god knows how many years living with someone that was mentally abusing me but I never realised it until I eventually spoke to someone about what I was living like. We had been together for 20 years and married for 13. We have 15 and 12 yo boys together.
Now I have found my voice again and won't take any of her posturing and she won't even reply to my emails or txts about things regarding the boys. We had an arrangement for paying maintenance, which I did every month without fail, but now she would rather go through the CSA than deal with me lol.
I come here with concerns about my sons welfare, looks like neglect, so I will post again with my concerns.
Was just supposed to say Hi lol, see what happens when you have somewhere to vent :woohoo:
Hi,
Thanks for introducing yourself. I'll look out for your future posts. There are different sections on the forum for you to ask questions/share experiences etc....
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