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Sorry if this is not the correct board to post to first of all !
Long story short , my wife had an affair and openly admitted to it , even had a letter saying so ,
I agreed to try and make it work as our son was younger but he is 18 now and working . I cant get it out of my head though and would like to know how to go about separating ,
We have a joint mortgage and i want to sell and split whatever profit there is so we can go our separate ways and get on with our lives ,
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Hi there
As your son is an adult now your wife won't have the right to stay on in the home. The best thing to do is talk to her about this and agree to put the house on the market. She may want to buy you out.
I don't know much about the separating/divorce process so I can't advise about the legalities. Perhaps have a chat with your mortgage adviser.
It might be worth getting an initial free consultation with a solicitor. Having said that, if you can work out an agreement with your ex, you could each save several thousand pounds if you can just agree to use solicitors to process the paperwork.
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