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Hi All Ive just joined because im a little worried.
My partner (32) is pregnant with my first child but her 2nd and she still lives at home with her parents (mother is very controlling and imtimidating she is very much the dominant one of the family).
Its all very new to me (40) but i know its quite normal for some pregnant women to have mood swings but is it normal for some women to push their partners away when they are pregnat with their child ?
The reason i ask this is because im not sure if my partner still wants to be with me or not.
We work at the same place doing a 4 on 4 off night shift i start at 7 doing 12 hours and she starts at 11 doing 8 hours. When i first speak to her at work she seems angry with me and then turns her back on me she just won't talk to me but talks to people she is working with. As the night gos on she seems to be less moody and starts speaking to me a little. On rest days when she is at home she completley ignores my texts and phone calls to the point she turns off her phone and as the pregnancy gos further she gets worst towards me our relationship is nearly non existencing. When i ask her if she still wants to be together she says yes but her behavour towards me makes me feel like she dos'nt.
Am i being paranoid or is this common in pregnant women ?
Thanks for Reading and advice
Steve
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