Welcome to the DAD.Info forum: Important Information – open to read:
Our forum aims to provide support and guidance where it can, however we may not always have the answer. The forum is not moderated 24 hours a day, so If you – or someone you know – are being harmed or in immediate danger of being harmed, call the police on 999.
Alternatively, if you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123.
If you are worried about you or someone you know is at risk of harm, please click here: How we can help
Hi me again with my problem n still don't know what exactly I should be doing.
Went to mediation this morning same old rubbish took details and book another appointment. Nothing been discussed just the mediator told me to move out of the house to then thing will be different. As I said earlier in my mail that my ex she left the marital house and leaving with her parent and it has been 10 weeks since I saw my kids.
Today before the mediation was about to finish the mediator gave an envelop and said it is from my wife. Guess what? She made an application for occupation order and I need to be in court for 28/06/12 at 11:00 hours this Thursday. I don't know what to do am so stress tried to contact my solicitor she is off and went to CAB they can't help, where do I go.
I have gone through the application and it look like she wants me out of the house and she has come with lots of excuses saying that my girls and her health are affected because of me. She sleeping on the floor at her mum place, the kids get disturb, my daughter routine is affected and her breathing is getting worst (asthma) and my other daughter eczema is getting bad and so on. She also added a report form the doctor and even the school wrote a letter for her to support her on that. You all these look like it is not going my way and she is winning all the time preventing me to see my kids, getting me out of the house, and taking all my money,
Please tell me what can i do in this situation. It is getting bitter everyday and am looking contact with my kids.
What suggestion can you give when for Thursday when I will go to court. How can I prepare myself to stop that occupation order. It will be of great help if you could help me.
Thanking you in anticipation and looking forward to hear from you.
Hi,
It doesn't sound like you've been given much notice to get ready for this, however if you were hoping to have a solicitor represent you, you could ask the practise if they have anyone else there who could represent you. If not, do you know what outcome you are hoping for e.g. if you both own the house are you wishing to sell it? Or keep it?
Welcome to the DAD.info forum.
We don’t like to set ‘rules’, but to make sure that you and the other dads are kept safe, we have some requests. When engaging with the forum, please be aware of the following:
- The forum is not moderated 24 hours per day.
- Many of the moderators do so on a voluntary basis. Whilst they may be able to provide some guidance, advice or support, they may not be able to deal with specifics.
- We are not an emergency crisis service so if you or someone else is in immediate danger, please call emergency services.
- If you are concerned about the safety of a child, please click here to find the support you can get for them (link to new page)
- If you are in crisis, please call Samaritans on 116 123. They are open 24 hours a day, 7 days per week.
We hope you find this forum a supportive environment and thank you for joining us.