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Evening all just finishing off my ps for my nmo directions on Thursday which I will be offering undertakings.spotted in 8 things I’m not allowed to do typical no contact and all other silly things but 2 are concern which I think are sly tactic which is me not harass pester intimidate kids and do not threaten abuse kids surely the nmo is to protect the applicant and is this a way to stop frustrate contact with the kids.I am going to offer undertaking but remove them 2 as to me it’s clear trying to be sly cause my cao order would then be pointless with them 2 her Solictor’s have tried sticking in and probably the main reason why they offered me undertakings and also to carry on getting legal aid sneaky ******* any advice be appreciated
Hold old are kids?
@warwickshire1 1year old and 3 year old I’m gonna remove them from undertakings as to me the nmo is to so called protect her should be nothing to do with kids
When theres young children involved especially with one being under the age of 2 it is actually best to accept undertakings to ensure contact is maintained and as long as contact is being offered. I certainly wouldnt be accepting a non molestation order though. If you wasnt to accept undertakings given that children are so young contact could be limited
@warwickshire1im gonna be offering undertakings I originally contested the nmo but spotted that 2 of the rules are in relation to kids which I’m now gonna remove from undertakings I’m offering but also asking judge to discharge them 2 from the nmo as clear ploy to hamper child arrangements with them in nmo
Be careful how you word this request to the court in your ps. Perhaps better to state you consider these undertakings are a cause for concern in respect of facilitating contact with the children, and for that reason, you are cautious about agreeing to them.
@yoda I have put this in let me know what you think please
I would like to propose closing these hearings throughoffering undertakings. Eight were proposed at the return hearing on 8 March 2021. I would be willing to accept six of these provided this is done on a “No admissions, No Findings” basis. Undertakings iii and iv, which are specifically targeted atrestricting contact with my children, are asked to be removed or to remain if adapted with the additional text “(while accepting that child contact should take place as per other court orders)”
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