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Hi FathersRights
I have no intention of taking my ex back to court or to stop him seeing our son I was just saying what my barrister suggest that's all
If you read my post properly you would of seen that my son is the loser in all of this he's got a father who doesn't come to contact for months with no explanation hasn't not paid a penny in maintenance ever and he got the house too
I know there is lots of deadbeat mother's you are right but there is deadbeat father's too they do exist !!!/
Well, i suggest you take your son and leave him at the fathers place every weekend or when you know the father is at home. However I know most mothers stop all contact to extort more money from CSA and the father
Thanks for the brilliant advice FathersRights lol
I couldn't just dump my son with him his father I wish I could
I'm not that bothered about child maintenance either
But thanks for replying you response has made me laugh
It shoudl be on your son's terms, not on you ex's - if he can't stick to regular contact, then no contact actually may be better for your son, because he's then not being constantly let down. I went through exactly this process with my youngest daughter, when my ex wife was messing her around by not turning up to contact.
Thanks actd .. how did you deal with the situation?
- Samaritans – call 116 123
- Shout – text the word ‘Shout’ to 85258
