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Top Tips for School Starters

With kids across the country going back to school, or starting for the first time, Charlotte Gater, Head of Curriculum at tuition provider, Explore Learning, looks at what you can do as a parent to make it a fun, rather than fearful, time…

Many children across the country will be returning to – or starting – school this week after the long summer holiday. While it can be a time of excitement for children keen to get back to see their friends and share stories of the summer break, for many, particularly those heading to school for the first time, it can be a time of anxiety – and as a parent, you might be feeling anxious, too.

Explore Learning ( provides extra tuition in English and maths to children aged four to 14. Head of Curriculum, Charlotte Gater provides her top Back to School tips…

  1. Listen to their concerns
    Starting school for the first time is one of the biggest things in an individual’s life – and for someone so young, the biggest thing so far! Try not to be anxious about it, as your child will pick up on this and be anxious too. Instead, be super excited about this new stage in their life and celebrate their success once they’ve got through day one, and then week one. If they’re worried about anything, talk to them and listen to their concerns and reassure them they have nothing to worry about.
  2. Give them independence
    A little bit of independence can go a long way in preparing a child to be ready for school. Things like putting on their coat, taking off their jumper and managing socks and shoes can seem small, but will be enormous in their first week of school if they can’t do it and their fellow pupils can. Encourage your child to master these skills at home to ensure they are confident and don’t feel anxious about doing it without you there!
  3. Make friends with their friends’ parents
    Once your child has made friends, really get to know them and make an effort with their parents. Arrange play dates where you can share the load in childcare – and make friends with others who you will have a lot in common with! Having friends is one of the most important things for children to help them settle into a new environment and so it’s important to support them as much as possible.
  4. Seek out hobbies for your child
    School can cause a lot of pressure for children, particularly those going through years with tests in them, so seek out hobbies for your child to help them let off steam. You will know what activities they like the most, but encourage them to try as much as possible – from ballet to football, art to girl guide. By doing activities after school, they will meet new friends and gain confidence , learning new things they may not be able to try at school.
  5. Help yourself with homework
    For many parents, homework is one of the biggest concerns about their kids going back to school – from the perspective of encouraging their child to make sure it gets done, but also thinning about how to help them along the way, particularly amongst those parents who may not feel 100% confident in their own abilities. Talk to your child’s teacher about any concerns you have around the current curriculum, or sign up to your local Explore Learning group who hold parent-tutor sessions, helping parents to get up to speed on children’s learning and ensure they’re helping their children in the correct way.

  6. Consider extra tuition
    The leap from one year to the next can be incredibly daunting, so if after a few weeks your child is struggling in certain areas of maths or English, seek out extra tuition. Chat to their teacher about how they’re going and if tuition could be beneficial. It’s about raising confidence and helping a child feel happier at school, knowing they are achieving the best they can. It’s also fantastic for those children who want to be pushed that little bit harder outside of the classroom (and it’s often more affordable than you think).

Charlotte Gater is Head of Curriculum at tuition provider, Explore Learning, which provides extra tuition in English and maths to children aged four to 14. Find out more at (



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