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Hi
i have a 3 year old. I’m really struggling with how distracted I get in social situations to the point I can’t relax
its hard to explain, because I don’t fear her being hurt. But I can’t focus on anything else other than her.
There are zero issues in the family, she’s happy well loved by a massive family.
whats strange is if we go away as a couple without her. I don’t worry!?
it seems to be when I’m in the same place as her. A constant eye on her.
i look at other parents and they can engage in situations a lot more than im able to
I try to think what’s the worse thing that can happen. Example, I’ll creep around the house if she’s asleep. But everyone else is loud. It really stresses me out. Firstly she’s never actually woken because of it. Second, what’s the worse thing. She wakes up.
I understand it in my head but I can’t shake it
help!
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