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Hi all
I am almost certain this a tale as old as time, but my 15 year old son has been coming over less and less for the past 6 months. Despite me every fortnight making up his bed, getting food in etc - i am always let down last minute - as he has typically other interests at the Moment ( sleep overs etc).
I have today out of the blue received a letter from the CM - stating that my ex has advised them of a change in shared care!? stating that i do not have him anymore.
Can i challenge this? i have 6 months worth of text messages asking/ querying/ communicating with him about coming over etc - and text messages of him letting me down.
Does anybody know where i stand with this?
Thank you
hi,
if you have a court order that states the shared care arrangements, CMS will still over rise this if the child is currently spending less time with you, and unfortunately your payments will increase.
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