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Can you please provide an update. I am now going through something very similar?
@warhammer still not seeing daughter. Judge overruled cafcass's recommendation of no contact. If my daughter wants to see me then she can. But she obviously isn't coming, still saying she hates me, but won't say why. We have been told to go to therapy as a family. Final hearing in the summer. Hasn't got any easier, just have to move on with life.
@dadmod2
Terrible.
No contact. Judge ruled that I was the problem and the Mother a saint.
The system is completely messed up.
Devastated.
@felix5 hi,
sorry to hear. their rulings can be harsh. but they did leave a few options available, such as taking a course, then applying to court for contact in future?
I wish you well in the Section 7 case and I hope you get the emergency court hearing you wanted. One day at a time, if it helps to get things out of your mind before you go to sleep, write a journal, or a list. Perhaps even keep a note of one positive thing that happens in your day, and by the end of the week you will have seven positive phrases.
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