I'm after some advice/clarity on the matter of paying child maintenance.
I have 2 children with my ex and an agreement was set up via a consent order when we separated. My oldest is nearly 18 and recently joined the Army, I, therefore, amended the monthly payments to reflect the change for this month, including the days he was 'home' before leaving. As expected the ex is furious with me and has stated I still need to pay until he is 18 and what he is doing is classed as training. Where do I stand? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am not looking to dodge anything, I've not missed a payment for the past 15+ years but I am not wanting to be taken for a mug either. Thanks.
I would have a word with child maintenance options to get their opinion - this link might help - I thought that joining the armed forces was a reason that payment could stop, but I'm not certain on that, so it's definitely worth getting an expert opinion