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DR1990
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My 11yr old son came to stay with me on 27th Dec as his mum was struggling with his behavioural issues, on 2nd Jan I submitted a C100 application after hearing the horror stories re my ex and her boyfriend ( drug taking, not even having a bed, physical abuse, always being shouted at, constantly doing chores, going to bed at the same time as 3yr & 6yr siblings 6.30 pm, I could go on) his mum claims he had a heart op at G.O.S.H on 15th Dec, she posted it on Facebook, she also says he has adhd, autism, and severe learning difficulties.
I have spoken to both his primary and secondary schools who haven't had any paperwork re. Autism & adhd and both say he does not have any learning difficulties.
I have spoken to his consultant at G O S H and he had an angiogram in Dec. He doesn't need an op.
I contacted the police who gave me a crime no.
His mum filed a C100 on 8th Jan and has a court hearing on 19th Jan.
I haven't heard a thing about my application apart from email confirmation

What do I do now

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Topic starter Posted : 15/01/2021 12:00 am
Dad24
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If she has lied about all of those other things do you think she could have lied about the c100 and court date etc? It seems like a possibility without hard evidence, and if she had submitted a c100 then I am under the assumption you should have been contacted regarding the court hearing also as there would have to be serious reasons you weren't contacted.

I myself submitted a c100 at the beginning of October and had a court date of 2 weeks later and the mother was contacted and invited to the court date also

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Posted : 15/01/2021 12:12 am
Dad24
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Forgot to say, you could always call the court and ask them. I know you don't have a case number but you could ask them if your name is down to appear in court via remote hearing etc

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Posted : 15/01/2021 12:13 am
DR1990
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I had the court papers in the post yesterday

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Topic starter Posted : 15/01/2021 12:22 am
Dad24
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Write yourself out a personal statement and prepare yourself for court then! It'll be remote hearing so video or phone call. I had a mckenzie friend for my first hearing but I feel it was a waste of money for me personally as they didn't tell me anything I hadn't found out on this forum and also the judge did not allow them into the meeting.

Not sure on your financial situation, if you'll be self representing or hiring a solicitor etc.

I've had an emergency court hearing myself and have my first directions coming up next month so at the moment I only have experience of the emergency hearing

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Posted : 15/01/2021 12:33 am
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Bill337
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hi,

phone or email court to find out whats happening. i think you should turn up for the hearing on 19th jan if nothing changes. have you paid for your application yet? if not, better to hold off.

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Posted : 15/01/2021 2:37 am
DR1990
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Paid fee on 6th Jan

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Topic starter Posted : 15/01/2021 10:08 pm
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