Oops! Hit the thank you button by accident....although thank you for highlighting a problem that all members face on public forums. Because the forum posts can be accessed by guests as well as members, it's all the more important to maintain anonymity when posting about personal matters. Some members choose to "hide" their status and posts, whilst others change the [censored]/number of their children or locality to disguise themselves.
Unfortunately I don't think there's a facility to change your username, there used to be with the old format but that seems to have been lost with the recent changes. I suppose you could close your existing account and reopen with a "new" identity.
Hi Bin,
If you use a username that your ex is aware of the I would advise that you get you username changed. (Pm me with a new name and I'll change it for you.
All post on the forum are searchable via Google. It allows other dads to find us and get advice and support.
Gooner.