Hi All,
I need help.
Me and my wife are Pakistanies. My both brother in laws are living in UK from last 15 years around and they are UK National now. Their mother is also living with them. My wife worked in UK for 4 years.
We have a 15 month old son. I am working in Singapore from last year. I called my family in mid of this year to singapore.
Before she came to singapore, once she abused me during an arguments, I could not sleep 3 nights but i did not say any thing and ask her to make preparations.
She came here and then one night she abused me on sms, I then ask her not to do this in a very polite manner.
And after 2 weeks she did it again then I slapped her.
Next day when I came back from office then she was not home and taken my son to Shelter house. I face Court and she got PPO against me. Then She took my son to Pakistan without informing me, I went back Pakistan, consulted a lawyer as I was afraid that she might take my son to UK. Lawyer said if I do custody case then court will issue the orders that child should not be taken outside UK. So I did this.
I love both of them, from last 6 months I am not been able to sleep properly...
Now despite case in Pakistani Court, she has taken my son to UK. Her family is not attending my calls and I dont know what I do....
I am missing my son, I love him.
Please do help me what should i do.
Regards,
Abbas
Hi Abbas
I can't condone you hitting your wife, this isn't acceptable.
You should speak to your solicitor and see if you can apply for an order to have them returned to Pakistan.
As this is an international problem I would recommend that you call Reunite, they are very experienced at dealing with child abduction across borders. Here's a link to the Reunite website where you will find a telephone number to call for advice, if you can't call you could send them an email.
www.reunite.org