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C100 Application never met my daughter

 
(@mb1008)
Active Member Registered

Hi

 

I've never met my daughter as when her mum was pregnant I couldn't stand her hormones so I chose to walk out. I was in and out. \in the end she said I wasn't good emotional support for the labour and I didn't speak to her. Anyway after the birth she texted me to say daughter is born but I didn't want to know as she texted it to me. she didn't even call!

 

I reported her and her family for common assault. she later registered the baby (I'm not on birth certificate as we never married and I've not seen/spoken to her) and applied for CMS. I told them I was not the dad but DNA later proved I was. so I filed for full custody and to have my ex locked up. I paid maintenance the first 3 months but stopped now. will they really arrest me? she doesn't deserve my money

 

How likely is it I will get full custody? she is saying I was emotionally and psychologicaly abusive. Cafcass have recommend a section7 but waiting on court update.

 

No date set yet but I applied in April

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Topic starter Posted : 13/08/2023 11:25 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

Hi,

If child is living with her, then unlikely courts will change residency (custody) of child. Would have to be serious reasons for that.

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Posted : 14/08/2023 9:17 am
(@mb1008)
Active Member Registered

@bill337 thanks for replying! yes child living with her. she has mental issues.. she has depression. I told Cafcass she could harm child.

 

I happy to wait to get custody as she is a baby now. will I at least get visitation in the meantime?

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Topic starter Posted : 14/08/2023 5:22 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

@mb1008 hi. At first hearing you can ask judge for contact in interim. But would be up to judges to decide.

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Posted : 14/08/2023 7:14 pm
(@mb1008)
Active Member Registered

@dadmod2 hi. Back with an update. Section 7 complete after fact finding. It was found that I was abusive but this isn’t true. Cafcass have recommended indirect contact indefinitely until I admit and change my behaviour. Have a DRA coming up but I plan on rejecting all the recommendations. Ex is in agreement with most of the recommendations. Will judge order final hearing or will they make a final order at DRA?

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Topic starter Posted : 29/10/2024 5:27 pm
(@dadmod2)
Illustrious Member

@mb1008 hi,

sorry to hear you had adverse fact find. I think you are better off accepting the findings, even if you disagree with them. Otherwise they can make final order with you having zero contact with kids.

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Posted : 30/10/2024 1:54 pm
(@dadmod3)
Honorable Member

Is not looking so good if you're not paying maintenance as that shows a lack of responsibility.  The Judge is likely to go with the recommendations unless you can show good reason not to.  Suggest you stay child focussed and perhaps offer to  undertake a parenting course to demonstrate commitment

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Posted : 01/11/2024 9:40 am
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