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With CAFCASS just state the truth and facts and don't slag the ex off, stay child focussed....it's your children's rights to have a life unrestricted with both parents not just her.
Thanks. The issue is that he doesn't want to see more of his mother...(he lives with me)
When's the 2nd hearing jazz. Seems like yours is moving forward quite swiftly from the moment you applied. Keep us updated. I'm keeping an eye on this thread. Some useful advice by other members. Appreciate it this gents
mine moved quickly too, despite section 7 report. made application just before xmas. first hearing was 31 jan. 2nd in march if i remember. final one in mid-may.
Thanks. The issue is that he doesn't want to see more of his mother...(he lives with me)
OK, well then my previous message still stands that it's the child's right to contact with both parents, however, Court and CAFCASS do and will take in to consideration the wishes and feelings of the child based on their age, maturity and level of understanding....but there are no guarantees which way it will go.
Honesty and child focussed is what you all have to be.
Hi Everyone,
I just thought I'd share my latest update.
CAFCASS came and went. I felt like I'd done well, then the report came. ...
They recommended that the routine stayed the same, which has cheered me up no end. We still have to go to court (and the ex has made up some interesting lies, which CAFCASS ignored), but I hear that they try and follow CAFCASS recommendations. CAFCASS were a bit 'He said, she said' but they did make the right decision. There is hope for you all!
Good news. I've been asked to send a Position Statement - do I still need to do that, despite their recommendation?
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