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You can get the birth certificate changed but you have to make a statutory declaration of acknowledgement of parentage to go with it. You could also both sign a parental responsibility agreement which can go with the application. Your ex can't put you on the birth certificate without you being there or having signed an acceptance of parental responsibility. The various forms can be downloaded on the www.gov.uk website. Having parental responsibility will give you rights in the future but go gently so you don't put her off
All contact has now been stopped, out of kindness she was allowing me to see my son, now she wishes me to go to court as she does not believe she has to do mediation
Hi,
I would suggest you book a mediation appointment for yourself: MIAM. mediator has to give you permission to apply to court. should be able to book one for £100. mediateuk are decent. https://www.mediateuk.co.uk/online-miam/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI1PeQrsm67wIVT-vtCh3yRg_xEAAYASAAEgIAQPD_BwE
- Samaritans – call 116 123
- Shout – text the word ‘Shout’ to 85258
