I have received the draft judgment from Court and it’s very depressive for me. I am morally down and don’t know what to do. I am on the verge of line of being disheart and disappointed.
As per judgment Judge has accepted and approved allegation 1.3.5. And that make me feel so sad and despair that can’t express my feeling.
I am hopeless and pointless , kindly advice me what should I do
1. controlling behaviour
3. physical abuse
5. emotional abuse
after the draft judgment court give me date for one hour hearing on that day judge give an other date 15th of November for cafe case report.
It's almost 2 year I'm not able to see my three and half year old son and cast me around 65k to 70k solicitor fee. I feel like I'm middle of no were please someone advise what i need to do for cafe case report.
hi,
so the court has ordered Cafcass to do a report? is it a section 7 report?
Hi mirza4891,
Whilst I cannot offer any guidance or advice on your legal situation, I would like to suggest that if you are able you make a memory box for your young son, which tells him something about yourself which is positive, and perhaps share something of your life story, so that when and if you are able to have regular contact with him, he will know that during the time you were apart, you still loved him and cared about him. This includes items like birthday and Christmas cards and gifts if you were unable to send them to him.
I understand that currently you are in a very difficult and stressful position, are you able to talk to anyone about how you are feeling ? If not there are free helplines you can call to speak with someone, and also of course this forum. Spurgeons, Gingerbread, Care For The Family and for immediate 1-1 conversation; The Samaritans. These are all charities that support all kinds of families.
I hope you are able to get the legal assistance you require also. I would have thought that any evidence you have that shows you are still trying to show your son that you care for him would be important.
Best Wishes, Spurgoens Parent Support