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How to change from paying through CMS to paying directly

 
(@elc06)
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Hi just looking for some advice.

I have a 2.5 year old with my ex partner. She stopped me from seeing my son from the second he was born. I fought in court and spent £15,000 gaining access to him. Since getting access I now have him on a Tuesday and Thursday 17:00-19:30 and every other weekend Friday-Sunday. 
I currently pay £45 per week through CMS but I would like pay her directly instead. 
I don’t like CMS knowing how much I am earning etc.

I cannot think of a way of asking his difficult mother a way to change from CMS to direct payments 

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Topic starter Posted : 09/01/2023 1:19 pm
(@bill337)
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hi,

you could try asking CMS to close case, but they would likely tell you they will only close case if receiving parent agrees, and they would contact her.

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Posted : 09/01/2023 3:58 pm
 actd
(@actd)
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I agree, assuming your ex opened the case with CMS, only she can close it, so you would need to get her to do that with CMS. 

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Posted : 12/01/2023 8:37 pm
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