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(@notoknow)
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Hi new here. Were to begin. My ex a very manipulative person to say the least denied me access to our daughter after claiming i raped her, this had gone on for 10 years! To start seeing our daughter last year to this year our family now has a strong bond with my daughter, to find out this year as she split from 6 year partner he was abusing the kids beating them and locking them in there rooms, social are involved aslo all her children (6) are on a CPP so i used my PR and decided not to return our daughter, social have said they back me. Ex has used domestic abuse to swindle her way out of one neglect charge and now being re interviewed for this. She has had 4 partners over the 10 years who have "raped and abused her" false allegations. Now she states to the authorities its our daughters choice where she wants to live. Our daughter wants nothing to do with her at all. Can the courts rule against me for my daughter only contacting siblings not biological mum? Im unsure why social have allowed the kids to stay (other 5) even after an ICPC score of 1 all round. The ex is known for using kids as weapons and known for crying abuse with 0 factual eveidence (just getting her word in first) what are the chances court rule my daughter to go back? Ex has stated no safegaurding concerns at dads house social also have no concerns. Still awaiting cafcass safegaurding letter from oct. Many thanks for any advice

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Topic starter Posted : 17/11/2022 3:36 pm
(@notoknow)
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Court was recent still awaiting result (paper based)

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Topic starter Posted : 17/11/2022 3:58 pm

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(@bill337)
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hi,

I would suggest to wait for the cafcass letter to come through. the section called advice to court will be crucial. 

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Posted : 17/11/2022 5:20 pm
(@notoknow)
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Advice to court in their after interview letter stated ex she has no concerns about safegaurding with me and admitted neglect (currently being investigated for it) cafcass want social to do a section 7 with our daughters input (11) minimum contact with siblings to be arranged

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Topic starter Posted : 17/11/2022 7:02 pm

(@bill337)
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@notoknow ok section 7 is very common in these proceedings. more info: 

https://www.cafcass.gov.uk/grown-ups/parents-and-carers/divorce-and-separation/what-to-expect-from-cafcass/section-7-report/

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Posted : 17/11/2022 8:49 pm
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(@notoknow)
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@bill337 it has been asked for social services to do the section 7 report as they were unable to contact them on 4 occasions

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Topic starter Posted : 17/11/2022 9:31 pm

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