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I have a 9 month old daughter, separated from her mother about 2 months ago. Since then she has applied to the courts for an emergency residency order (which was declined) said that i was aggressive and mentally unstable (which i am not.)
I am now waiting to go to court for a normal residency order and the ex is telling cafcass that i have a good relationship with my daughter and that she wants me to go to her house for contact!
I have asked cafcass for contact in a contact centre as my ex is very abusive and aggressive, she has had me threatened whilst we were still together and she has accused me of the above when it suits her. i also receive regular abusive text messages from her mother!
cafcass have advised that i go to my exs house for contact and put our differences aside! I thought that a contact centre would insure my safety and a calm environment for my daughter to spend time with me. Why doesn't cafcass take this threat seriously?
By them time you get to court she will be about 1, wont be dependent upon specific things like breast milk and to avoid any false allegations you are very sensible in what you suggest.
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