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Do you have any evidence to prove some of the points you make....texts, emails, letters, police notes, statements etc...
Apart from that it looks OK to me.
...I have edited your statement. To be honest there is enough information in there to link this to you, which could be extremely problematic for you should any of the parties involved read this and decide to report it to the court. All statements and other paperwork, in fact anything that is related to the case is highly confidential and shouldn't be discussed with anyone outside tof those attending in court. It is classed as contempt.
Its a tough road DWC....all I can say is have courage of your convictions.
Im guessing its your ex who said stop or you wont see your child?
Its your choice but in my own personal experience I have had to go to court for every bit of time I have with our children and if your ex succeeds in intimidating you she will keep doing so.
Only you know but all here will do what we can to support you.
Regards,
Dave
i used to get "keep this up and you'll never see your child until courts tell me to" well a few times i've held back and let her control me and my interaction with my child...each and every time was the same....its her way or no way! she'd stop me seeing him one week then demand i change my day with him the following at a days notice and if i didn't the threat was always the same "if you don't change it you can tell him why he's not going to his friends party / for tea / to play" etc...
i bent over backwards and took it all until she did it on his birthday weekend and thats when i decided i'd had enough of being controlled when and how i see my child.
if you don't make a stand you will always be controlled by her........if you do make a stand you could lose precious time with your child and could well be forced to jump through every hoop and demand she puts in your way....but in the long run you could be free of all her controlling.
however weigh the options up well before you decide what to do.....and if you make a stand then be prepared for the longhaul cos it could become a bumpy road very quickly.
on the other hand it may show her how serious you are about being a good father to your child.....she may see that and become reasonable.....or she may fight like a wounded animal.
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