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last march myself and my long term (21 yrs) partner seperated, i have 4 children with her 3 of which are still living with her, they are 13yrs and twins of 12 yrs.
she has a new man in her life which is not the issue, they have decided to move 90 miles away to scarborough and they are taking my younger children with them.
my 13 yr old and one of my twins have stated they want to live with me as they are constantly being shouted at and verbally abused by the new "fella" and they cant bear living so far away from me.
i have been in receipt of threats from the new man, both physical and mental.
is there an age where the child can make the decision as to which parent he lives with?
if so how do i arrange this?
although at the start communication was good with my ex, she has now become un approachable in any matter concerning the kids.
please help, as i fear the next move could be one of permanent exclusion and im at my wits end.