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Non mol on me can i put one on her or similar?

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I have a contested, non proof non mol on me. I have never sone anyhting wrong. My ex is sending abusive messages about me to various people and also has had me thretended all of which is on voice recording and messages and can be proved. i have a appointment for a 3rd time with police. Can i put a non mol on her for having someone threaten me who blatantly states in call she has put them up to it? I want a restraing order or non mol on her asap what can be done here?



Topic starter Posted : 28/09/2021 3:05 pm
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when you meet police again, you could discuss the problems your ex is causing and show the kind of messages she is sending, and see what they think.

Posted : 28/09/2021 4:49 pm

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I'd agree with Bill. However, in answer to your question, yes you can apply for a non mol. However, take the emotions out of things and the process and. structure your approach to increase success if you apply for one.

Dont come across that you are applying just because she has, get the police onside and if they are in favour it will help matters at court. 

However, just remember, if any young kids are involved, both parents having non mols will make child contact so much more difficult and a long drawn out process.


All the best. 

Posted : 28/09/2021 6:57 pm
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A non mol can be worded that there's no contact between you and arrangements for child contact are done through a third party.  I agree will Bill that you need to show the police the sort of messages you are getting.  You could also contact which is for male victims of domestic abuse and see whether there is support from them or elsewhere local to you.  They may help you decide what to do

Posted : 28/09/2021 9:40 pm

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