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Not the biological father of my 12 yr old.

 
(@pheonix420)
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Yup..as the topic title reads! 

I'll just skim to the basics,

I found out a week ago that I'm not the dad of my 12 yr old daughter. 

The DNA results were very conclusive, also she has stopped me seeing my daughter because she's says I lie...

 

I have let my ex know, she then called me sick, and wev not spoke since....

What can I do ?

 

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Topic starter Posted : 25/07/2023 5:04 pm
(@champagne)
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You might not be the biological father of your daughter but you are still her dad.  You've bought her up as your own and those feelings won't go away and why should they.  You can try and contact your ex again with the aim of restarting contact.  If this fails, then you can make an application through the courts to see your daughter.  Are you on the birth certificate?  If your ex has told your daughter, then she may need some help to get her head round this. Its school holidays now but perhaps you could have a word with school next term. 

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Posted : 26/07/2023 9:43 am

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 actd
(@actd)
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As a a matter of interest, what made you get the DNA test in the first place?

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Posted : 27/07/2023 4:08 pm
(@pheonix420)
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It's complicated very complicated..

 

Basically my x has poisoned my daughters image of me...I let my x know last week...,,

this week my numbers been blocked on my daughters and my x phone. I can't call as she will kick off..I don't know what to do..

 

 

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Topic starter Posted : 28/07/2023 5:22 pm

(@pheonix420)
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@champagne I am on the birth certificate...I've been blocked now..I have zero way of contacting her

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Topic starter Posted : 28/07/2023 5:24 pm
(@champagne)
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The only way seems to make an application through the courts on a C100.  Are you in contact with her family?  Would they mediate?

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Posted : 29/07/2023 6:26 pm

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