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Hello,
I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice with regards to my situation.
I have had a residency order for the last 4 years which states my son lives with me and visits his mum every other weekend. I obtained the order because his mother has an alcohol problem, so part of the order stated that she was not to drink while having him or 24 hours before. Over the last 4 years everything has gone smoothly but recently my son has told me he has seen her and her partner drinking 'beer' and I received a drunken abusive phone call from her two nights ago.
I have told her she has breached our residency order and he will not be going to her for her usual weekend visit.
I have also contacted my original solicitor and am waiting to get an appointment with them.
My question is can anyone advise on what happens next? What can my solicitor do? I am sure I have done the right thing in stopping her visiting rights as I am not convinced she or her partner are capable of caring for him properly and would fear for his safety.
Many Thanks
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