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Hello All,
I have been seperated for the past 18 months and has made my life a living [censored].
She has relentlessly continued to make false and malicious allegations towards me and my family at every opportunity. I have a final hearing on 20 May 2013, and all of a sudden I have received a detailed list of allegations wherby that took place on 11 March 2013 and also on 17 and 18 March 2013.
Thankfully, I and my family have proof of our whereabouts.
Her solicitors have stated that they will put a non molestation order and more worringly making an urgent application t the court to have my contact order to be looked again, varied or dismiss and it maybe supervised contact.
At the moment my children come over for stay overs every fortnightly and also half of holidays but I DO NOT ahve 50/50 as this will be delth with on 20 May 2013.
I would very much appreciate if some can help and advise me whether my ex-partners solicitors can have this Order changed, varied etc and put it back supervised.
I thank all in advce.
regards,
Azimuddeen
If you have proof that these allegations aren't true then I would be very surprised if the judge took them seriously.
The judges are used to hearing false alegations and can normally see through them.
Darren
If you have proof of where you / your family were at the time of her allegations then get it ready and have 3 or 4 copies to produce in court at the hearing when you get to that point in their claims.
Offer it to the judge that you can prove where you were and that it didn’t take place.
Then it’ll add weight to her making things up to just hurt you by preventing you seeing your kids.
One thing to keep in mind for a closing statement…….
her reducing your time with your kids not only is detrimental to them and their upbringing and they should have you in their lives……..
Also in her reducing the amount of overnight contact you feel this is motivated by vengeance towards you and greed……greed being that if you have less overnight contact therefore she will claim more money in maintenance off you…..making it more difficult for you and therefore another way of her using the kids to hurt you!
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