Hi folks.
I got divorced 7 years ago. I have a 11 year old daughter and two other children with my new partner. I live in Scotland. My daughter stays five minutes from me. We have a great relationship.
My 11 year old has been blethering to me about her mother new ideas about uping sticks and moving to Northern Ireland. My daughter is exploring her options including the realisation that if she moves to northern Ireland she will see very little of myself and her brother and sister.
I've not broached the subject with her mother as she will just lie.
I understand that Northern Ireland is part of the UK and that there is little to stop them going.
I'm keen to hear from anyone in similar situations and see what their experiences are and what advice they can give.
Cheers.
I'm not sure of the law in Scotland, but in England, Scotland is classed as a different country as far a taking children is concerned, so you may be able to prevent the move on that basis. Your daughter is also now just old enough that a court will seriously consider her thoughts and feelings on this.
I would have a look at this site and see if they can also assist https://sclc.org.uk/
