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Hi everyone
I have a 5 months old baby girl by my ex who’s now deciding when and where I get to see my daughter. She frustrated me after she had the baby so much that I had to move out of the house. It’s clear she wants me out of the child’s life so she can be w single parent a claim benefits..she called the police on me once for domestic abuse and said all sorts of lies to them..I have made a subject access request on the incident but yet to receive any outcome..the plan is to go to court..Any advice please ..thanks
hi,
I would suggest you make a last ditch attempt. send her a letter/message laying out arrangements to see child. you could get a solicitor to write that letter, incase she accuses you of harassment. if she ignores or refuses, then you could take legal route. as she has made domestic abuse/violence allegations against you, you can skip mediation and apply to court with a child arrangement order (c100). it costs £232. it can be done online:
I would suggest to not make any other contact with her or visit the house in the meantime.
@koby no problem. I have been through this. feel free to private message me if you need help.
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