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(@positivety05)
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Just seeing what advice be given I’ve applied to the courts for my c1a to be withdrawn from the proceedings as now gathering further information I totally screwed it up as was done in haste emotion and be honest my mind set at time of doing the c1a with my c100 was rushed cause in my head get it in get see kids next day. Obviously not the way courts or this process works.I just believe it is more detrimental to my c100 application and will cause me more trouble than just getting it removed cause at the end of the day it’s the children which are the main priority and I don’t want to get in the [censored] for tat mud slinging I just want to rise above all that and let the judge decide on the non molestation order and further child arrangements cause I know I will get to see my kids but just think by removing any rubbish now will make it easier further down the line. Any bits of advice or criticism of what I’m doing be good to hear from different perspective as I am self representing myself and every part of this process is hard and challenge full of doubt
 
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Topic starter Posted : 19/03/2021 7:19 pm
 actd
(@actd)
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Definitely worth getting it straight now.

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Posted : 22/03/2021 4:38 pm
(@warhammer)
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To be clear have you raised the C1A re abuse against you? If this is something that impacts the children in anyway during passed or present then it will be relevant in the court case C100 and I think best to be open and honest, which will save time. 
Have you actually requested it to be removed already?are you currently seeing your children, if not what reason have you been given for this?

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Posted : 22/03/2021 9:20 pm
(@warwickshire1)
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I wouldnt worry too much. You are a litigant and half of the time they dont pay attention to c1a at the time.  When u get to first hearing you just dont raise any of the issues and start afresh. No mudslinging and getting a good contact order.  I seen some mad c1a go in and once in court not a word mentioned about it.

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Posted : 22/03/2021 9:35 pm
(@positivety05)
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@jnny yes asked for removal cause like all us dads panic kicks in and rather than seek advice from the off just throw stuff in the basket hoping it works out..mine was done in haste emotion and she was steps ahead of me cause I got non mol which contested.And no contact since she left on 4/2/21 so all I’m trying to do is clear things up for when I get to child arrangements 

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Topic starter Posted : 22/03/2021 9:47 pm
(@positivety05)
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@warwickshire1 thank you for reply puts mind at ease abit 

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Topic starter Posted : 22/03/2021 9:48 pm
(@positivety05)
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@jnny and in relation to abuse to me in c1a like I said I filled it in but way I done it load rubbish and my only interest is in getting contact with the kids so clear the rubbish up whilst my child arrangements are on hold seems best option as taking advice not having things done right will cause delays issues further on with arrangements 

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Topic starter Posted : 22/03/2021 9:52 pm
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