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Life balance stay put or change.

 
danielb1977
(@danielb1977)
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I do have fortnightly court ordered access to my (daughter 8)and holiday stays too. 

I live 90 miles away so does require travelling , my gf also lives 90 miles away at other end of country too. (We are planning to get place together eventually) 

I'm struggling with being so far from daughter and debating where I should move nearer and ask to see her more or stay put and focus on work, my relationship.

Benefits of staying put = cheaper efficient life.

Moving = being near daughter more time.

Maybe I should just be happy with the precious time I've got. 

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Topic starter Posted : 25/08/2021 12:34 am
Bill337
(@bill337)
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hi,

I would suggest to do what's better for you. If it's possible to see your child more if you move closer and your capable, then maybe a good idea.

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Posted : 25/08/2021 12:22 pm
danielb1977
(@danielb1977)
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Thanks the other option is travelling 3 weekends a month rather than 2 weekends.

It's knowing what to do for the best as I live 2 hours away 

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Topic starter Posted : 25/08/2021 10:52 pm
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