So my 5 month old spends a decent amount of time with her maternal grandad and my wife and I live under his roof while our house gets done up.
Earlier today grandad was carrying my daughter and walked past me in the kitchen and went in the bathroom for a wee with my child in hand.
I was a bit flabbergasted to say the least as I didn't expect that sort of behaviour from any guardian of my baby. Am I overreacting? I expected him to hand me my daughter while he went for a wee and collect her back on his return.
We are living under his roof but this really has not helped my paranoia as a first time parent. I have spoken to my wife who spoke to him and he said he won't do it again (damage in trust has already happened)
Any advice appreciated!
hi, sorry to hear this. how are things now?