Hi Again,
I am seriously fed up at the moment, the corruption in family courts as with CAFCASS is so obvious and it stinks.
I am, told I will not see my girls again by a woman that had already made her mind up about me after speaking to my ex, then sits there gloating and then had tears in her eyes?
I have received the section 7 report on the 3/7/2019 and then was emailed by ex's solicitor on the 5/7/2019 going through what the report said and how happy my ex was, it mentioned something about the 10/7/2019 and having prepared something for that, I was never informed officially that there was a hearing on this date, and today I received the final verdict from court saying I never attended and that I will get non direct contact every 3 weeks which they can shove up their back sides.
I have been in contact with the police once again as I feel my ex tricked me into allowing her access with restraining order in place yet there was nothing in the police report of them showing up which I am told it should be.
I feel everything is against me right now and can't take this abuse no longer.
I have been to see a solicitor in regards to legal aid as I am a victim of domestic abuse but it seems like it is too late as they have made it clear they didn't want me to attend court or to be in the girls lives.
I am told I have issues with authority, no I have issues with corrupt court and systems, I now see why they ignored the scott schedule as it would show my ex for what she is.
Corrupt As F, Children Are Seriously Screwed
My ex told cafcass so many lies, she even tried to provoke me in family court which I ignored her, her cousin shouted out to me "what the f you looking at?" I ignored them, but spoke about it to her solicitor, she told cafcass i called her a c*** and I was told I need to seek help. Please don't be telling me I am paranoid like cafcass were trying to make out, cafcass think it is acceptable for a woman to send me messages claiming my girls were checked for sexual abuse whilst she was sleeping in the same bed as her brother, and the girls sleeping down the side in a travel cot, his own daughter too scared to be left alone with him and I am the one that is sick lol
I can't go on fighting against the whole corrupt system any longer.
I would add the evidence I have but don't want to cause trouble to admin or members on the site.
...I can understand why, but I’ve edited out the swearing.
I’m really sorry you’ve reached such an impasse, I hope you’ll take some time out for reflection on recent events and find a new perspective. Once the dust has settled, you might like to think about trying again... if you keep up with the indirect contact and give yourself a little time to get back on track, things may get better... but it will take time, effort and most importantly a change of attitude. Our children are worth it though aren’t they?
All the best
Thank you for your reply,
I am done with the whole situation with the system.
I witnessed my daughter being thrown across the bed, I then saw my ex throw a pillow over my daughters face/head which I took off, she denied all of this and then in her scott schedule admitted to it partially with a watered down version which was then removed from the court, WHY?
I have lived with the nightmares of those times and have to live with it for the rest of my life.
I can't agree to allow that thing to walk free without first admitting to what she did and then get the help she needs so badly rather than give her a free pass to commit the same crimes again and again as the system have allowed her to do, they won't be held responsible for her actions but I will have to suffer as will the girls, but I will also be arrested as with the police wanted to do after finding evidence of abuse 3 months after she took them from me but I am responsible somehow.
I can't keep fighting a lost cause, the system is so corrupt it is the Father that has to pay for everything whilst the mother keeps the kids and then controls the Father for the rest of his life and dictates as to when, where and who can see his kids while the mother can introduce as many men into their lives as she sees fit and this has become acceptable to society, not on my watch, I never signed up for this rubbish, I wanted to be a Father nothing less, but now I am unable to be so I don't see what else I can do other than to walk away and not just for now, but for good.
My girls deserve much better, but I am not going to have any input in to their lives, so they are no longer my girls, just hers.
When a family court judge, her solicitor and CAFCASS can all sabotage a case so the Father has no chance of defending himself and fight against a false section 7 then there is more of a problem than most of you really think.
All of the facts she gave to her solicitor were way off the truth it is laughable, yet they were believed by cafcass and the courts, where my truths were ignored, I can see why there are so many cases in the UK and so many messed up kids. This is the future and I want no further part in it, yet I will still have to pay for her kids to be dragged up by their abuser!
I wish you all well in your cases but for me the fat ex has sang the victory song, not realising that it is her 2 daughters that have actually lost! Not my problem any more.