Hello,
So on 25th August I have a lovely 2-hour family court hearing to go to. The first previous hearing I had.
1) Prohibited steps order was put into place - so Maternal family can monitor my contact while court proceedings go ahead.
2) Contact will take place at Funplex - a kids play area for two hours. 11am till 1PM. CAFCASS to carry out Section 7 report in the interim.
So far; I have the section 7 report now. The mother has basically slagged me off left, right and centre. Told me I'm always on my phone, never change the nappies, never buy food and tells me my daughter never wants to come to any of the sessions. (she's 17 months). Every time I go into the Funplex, I get sarcasm from the great-nan who's doing the supervision. Basically, the planned it out that they will do the contact to make me look bad in front of the courts.
I need to write out a position statement for the hearing on the 25th August. What I want you guys to help me with is basically what do I cover ? The court don't want a position statement that's super long. If I include all of the contact dates and write a paraprath for all; it will literaly be a 10 page document. How do I lay this documents out. Do I date each contact session and paraprath underneith; how can I keep this simpler while still detailing all the info ?
Is it a position statement or witness statement? Normally a position statement is no longer than 2 pages? And is it in response to the section 7?
a position statement is very brief, stating background, your thoughts, wishes and how you feel you can move forward. Keep it child focused, don’t speak negatively of mum as they hate this, even if it’s true 🙄
Deny any allegations and put forward any evidence you may have to show this.
a witness statement is more thorough, attaching evidence etc.
Does the section 7 report include recommendations for contact?
If so do you agree with or oppose them?
Hi,
Can you check your court paperwork and see what statement it is asking you to write? And what recommendations have cafcass made im s7 report?
@bill337 It's asking for a position statement no more than two pages. But this is the thing; how can I include all of the contact session history / breakdown by date and what happened during the contact since the first court date if I have to write a paragraph for each date it will literally be a 10 page document.
So far I have it positioned like this:
10.10.22 - On this date contact didn't happen.
17.10.22 - On this date such and such
23.10.22 - On this date this happened.
Father's Proposals
1) Contact should go to a contact centre.
Basically the Section 7 states is should go to a contact centre...
@kierana001 Ok I would stick to the 2 page limit they set. you can just write one paragraph, a summary of how contact centre visits have been going. with position statement, are they asking you to respond to the section 7 report?
Mine was the other way round. I had contact at the CAFCASS office first, then moved to contact at a wacky with the ex. Then with me at my home, 2 hours and gradually built up to overnights, long weekends. I’d keep statement brief, light and focused on what you and the child did. Did you pay for the session, did you buy food, drinks, if you did put that down. If you took a toy put that down. Say how great it was and you both.
why do you think contact should now be at contact centre and not just with you?
What contact recommendations did Cafcass make in the section 7 report?
@mrstrange checked with him, its contact centre sessions. and cafcass will later decide how to progress. no alternatives really.
What a shame 🙁
The court system can be embarrassingly inefficient. Supervised contact by an independent social worker should have been ordered at the previous hearing and take place in parallel with the section 7 being conducted.
The mother and maternal family wanted everything to be supervised by them so they can twist everything around and make me look bad at the next court hearing. At the first court hearing a prohibited steps order was put into place; so I can't remove my daughter away from the Maternal family.
Because it's not being monitored by a contact centre properly; my ex and her nan have basically made up saying that I don't pay for any of the contact sessions, saying that non of the nappies get chnaged and saying that I don't want to engage in contact when I'm there. And saying that I'm apparently on my phone the majority of the time (which isn't true).
Luckily; I am getting one of the personel at reception of Funplex to write me a short statement which is non-bias on how the contact ACTUALY is. But basically the section 7 report is all about the mother slagging me off. I told the mother's solicitor too; but that caused even more issues, as the maternal nan pulled me to the side and was verbally aggressive towards me at the last contact session. I want things to progress to contact centre so the courts have a proper statement of truth and to give CAFCASS a better understanding on how I actually am as a father.
Well I do want to avoid the contact centre really; as it's quite expensive. I have put forward your recommendations of an independent social worker to turn up at the current contact location (Funplex) then at least they can see what's actually happening during contact.