[Solved] visiting time reduced

Hi
What reason as she given for stopping over night contact ?
Do you pay through the csa ?

the mothers reason was hygine of my son but i can say this 100% untrue! i dont understand her motives, i dont pay through csa i pay by bank transfer £140 per month

Have these timing been set out in a Court Order? If they have start the Enforcement Order process. If not get these terms set out in a Contact Order, before your ex can use any excuse to say that contact has been broken. I say this as this could be start the start of her cutting down your hours to nothing.

Regards,

Brian

may be i'm just being sceptical here but if you have had that amount of time then your (Calculated) maintenance payments would be less than if you had what you now are going to be getting!

my ex very quickly worked out that not letting me have my child overnight increased the amount of maintenance i should pay! if you check the CM Options site it'll give you a figure based on the amount of overnight access you get!

for 52nights upto 103nights you reduce the payments by a 7th. 104nights and by two 7th's and so on

so....why stop you having much overnight contact/access? hmmmm any excuse she can and will make up to get more moeny off you??? or am i really getting very bitter and suspicious about ex's motives here?!! 😡

thanks for the advice guys as of tommorow i will be getting everything on paper with solicitor then finally get something set in stone through the court ........fingers crossed