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[Solved] HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! CRAZY BABY MOTHER

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crazybabymother
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shes called him alex

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Topic starter Posted : 03/05/2012 7:09 pm
Darren
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As already said,

Vent away, this is a safe place for venting and letting off steam.

You can and will be there for Alex, use this site for advice on how to make that happen,

you have plenty of options, she will push your buttons because she can, it's hard not to react but that really is the best way to deal with it as then she doesn't win.

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:13 pm
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buzzlightyear758
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Vent away! Sh1tty times!

Couldn't agree more Ron.

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:15 pm
Goonerplum
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OK - Glad that you are not needing to call the Samaritans.

Angry is perfectly ok . It must be frustrating being in your position.

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:15 pm
BabelFish
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Alex is a great name.

how long ago did you split up with your ex?

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:18 pm
Ronaldo
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you have plenty of options, she will push your buttons because she can, it's hard not to react but that really is the best way to deal with it as then she doesn't win.

I agree with Darren - you can and will be there for Alex, and there are lots of mates on here anytime you need us!

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:18 pm
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crazybabymother
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its really f**ked me up...

we was supposed to move in.. now im homeless staying on a mates floor

im in a bad way crying everyday i in a shit job.. i have no life now all i had was her and my boy...

this is so f**ked up...

i feel so alone and scared of what shes doing.. if shes found someone and i really dont know wot to do with myself...

what is wrong with bitches these days.. i think they all have there stupid single mum friends who feed them bullshit like hes no good you dont need him bla bla bla... f**king bitch i am really starting to hate her... if you knew what ive been threw ud wonder why i havent topped myself already... shes a fuckign knightmare

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Topic starter Posted : 03/05/2012 7:32 pm
crazybabymother
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heres the full story...

im 30.. met my gf about a year ago…

she fell pregnnt and if im honest i never wanted it. and told her

wrong i know but its how i felt.. now she told me shes keeping it..

i wasnt happy and was quite upset for a few months but the moment i held that little boy in my arms my world changed

i loved him and knew i had to do anything i can to make this work.

but it was not a happy time..

soon after the baby was born we began to argue

over his name… her tellin me i never wanted him etc…

she even hacked into my emails and facebook and saw messages id sent about her.

now she then went and registered the baby and didnt put me on the birth certificate.

also gave him a name i didnt like…

so i guess i have myself to blame for all this?

if i hadnt been so against it from the start wud this be happening to me now?

ive cried myself to sleep everynight wondering how someone can be so mean…

all i can say is when it comes to babies choose the mother carefully.

cos there is no way out of this… no matter what i do ill be wrong…

ill always be blamd for not wanting him in the beginning…

now i have no home.. no baby and no gf..

thoughts of topping myself often come into my head

but the only thing that keeps me going is that little boys smile..

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Topic starter Posted : 03/05/2012 7:36 pm
Darren
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You have clearly been through a lot and it's natural to feel this way it really is.

I've been there too and it feels like there is no where to turn, when there is, there's lot's of help availible and we can help arrange that for you if you'd like us too

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:37 pm
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crazybabymother
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thank u so much all of you... it does help to talk..

im sorry for bein so negative.. im sure u all have your own issues.. .im so sorry

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Topic starter Posted : 03/05/2012 7:39 pm
Darren
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That's good it's good you have something to keep you going and what better than your child's smile.

it will stay with you and when he grow's up and know's you as his dad, you will always remember how you felt when you first saw him

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:40 pm
Darren
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thank u so much all of you... it does help to talk..

im sorry for bein so negative.. im sure u all have your own issues.. .im so sorry

Don't worry, we are all here to help, we have all been through rough times and are happy to share our experience's with you.

I am sat at a desk at work with not much going on so feel free to chat away

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Posted : 03/05/2012 7:41 pm
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