Hello all, thankfully the criminal case was closed.
The FDR was adjourned. However, nothing has happened really. I have agreed to go to a mediation session but she still has yet to fully disclose her position.
She wants a clean break.
I would like to suggest 60% of the FMH ( her home, no mortgage I have contributed nothing financially), a percentage of her shares and pension. she has three pensions two of which are final salary. In total they are worth about £400000 and mine about £45,000.
She has not disclosed about £70,000 of shares and money that was gifted to her in 2015 (about £150,000)
Does anyone think my expectations are realistic?
Hello All,
i have not been on here for a while because nothing has really happened.
Since my last post we both attended a mediation session. I was adamant that she needs to comply with the FDA Order she said that we can reach an agreement through the mediator without disclosure.
I agreed to continue with mediation remotely. She wanted us in the same room. I felt I would really struggle with that. So she refused to continue. Then her solictors said she would continue. However, nothing happened. Then she instructed new solictors. I heard nothing from them other than that fact they are respresenting her.
Then we received a new FDR date for this Friday. Today I was advised that it has been vacated again as we have not fully adhered to our FDA Order.
Our Decree Nisi also came through. She has agreed to not apply for the Absolute until finances have been agreed.
The proposed consent order from her new solicitors changed quite a few directions that were agreed in our original FDA Order. I have not agreed to this.
What is likely to happen with the pensions. It is likely her old final salary pensions will be considered?
This is dragging on and I really feel so vulnerable.
I am convinced she has cash/assets hidden, possibly abroad. What are thoughts on forensic accountants as I have some dates when I recall her telling me she received money?