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[Solved] Not being the best Father and I need some advice

 
(@Dstratton111)
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So I will start from the beginning I was with my ex for four years when I entered the relationship she already had a child I see her as my daughter and I raised her to be. We got engaged and she got pregnant with my daughter. After as little as a couple of weeks after her Birth she didn't want to be with me and left me on my [censored] basically and I found out about stories of other guys blah blah blah... I have paid for them both with a mutual agreed amount of money.

After a while I found a new partner and moved town to start a new life in that time I have still paid for both my daughters but haven't seen them as regular as I could I know I should be better for them. Now thier mother won't even answer my contact and I really need her to sign saying I see and pay for my daughter. I want to see then and arrange something better but I have pushed thier mother to not talking to me what so ever now.
I feel horrible for not being there enough but I wanted to build a new life I have been so low I was destroyed when she ended it and I found out everything she had been doing.
She and her family bad mouth me on social media I stay away from it and now want to see my Daughters

Please advise me.

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Topic starter Posted : 20/02/2017 10:33 pm
 actd
(@actd)
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Hi

If you can't talk to her, then your next move is to attempt mediation to see if anything can be resolved without going to court. Try www.nfm.org.uk

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Posted : 21/02/2017 1:37 am
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