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It's OK to not be OK Are you struggling? Could you use some advice from a qualified counsellor? Every week Debbie...

ASK DEBBIE- I AM WORRIED ABOUT MY SON

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor with Fegans...

ASK DEBBIE- I AM A FIRST TIME FATHER WITH ANXIETY

Ask Debbie

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor...

ASK DEBBIE- I DON’T KNOW HOW TO BOND WITH MY STEPSON.

Ask Debbie

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor...

ASK DEBBIE- MY DAUGHTER DOESN’T WANT TO SEE ME

Ask Debbie

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor...

ASK DEBBIE- I’m anxious about court

Ask Debbie

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor...

ASK DEBBIE – I don’t want to be like my Dad

Ask Debbie

Dads, do you struggle sometimes? Who do you reach out to for help? Debbie Pattison, a qualified counsellor at Fegans...

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Ask Debbie

Ask Debbie – advice and support for Dads

ASK DEBBIE- I AM WORRIED ABOUT MY SON

ASK DEBBIE- I AM A FIRST TIME FATHER WITH ANXIETY

ASK DEBBIE- I DON’T KNOW HOW TO BOND WITH MY STEPSON.

ASK DEBBIE- MY DAUGHTER DOESN’T WANT TO SEE ME

ASK DEBBIE- I’m anxious about court

ASK DEBBIE – I don’t want to be like my Dad

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