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SUCCESS STORIES! 1 month 1 week ago #99435

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Essexdaddy has had quite a journey, but he’s reached an arrangement that he’s happy with! You can read his story here...

www.dad.info/forum/legal-eagle/51031-section-37-help-alienation


Hi all
Well after 3 days trial
I manage with the last grind of my teeth and some amazing people that pull in their pocket at the last moment to have a barrister for 2 days
He save the day I would say
Cafcass and social service completely against me
My ex completely against any contact unless supervised
We did make point that no finding was ever made the nmo was on consent and once again on another hearing no finding made but was treated as perpetrators
In the but shell after so much pain and debate
Just leave the children with the mother
To me it’s not fair given she hasn’t got home, must have 2 support worker to support her, she has still cbt anxiety treatment ongoing (3 years now) and has be showed that she deliberately stop contacts regardless the children misses their father
But like she said
I was advise to do so!
Anyhow
Judge aware me unsupported contact with the children every two weeks and in less than a month I will have them home for the week end Friday to Sunday every fortnight

System suck but this is how it is and given the fact that she got all the social service and people in her pocket believe her lies well I’m happy with that.
My eldest son(previous relationship) live with me full time and I will have the 2 little munchkins week end and Holliday
Soon , soon she will drew herself up and she surround herself with some feminazi and her father that his such a control prick I wonder how she will ever cope but I don’t care
Soon the kids will return home and I believe it’s only a matter of time for the children to ask to live with me like my eldest has done

Now I need to heal, pay my debt and prepare for my divorce as I couldnt Afford yet
She can’t take this from me and she will have to live her life on her own good luck I’m happy ;-)

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SUCCESS STORIES! 3 weeks 6 days ago #99658

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Anther well fought result for thelongroad... well done!

Quick update..i had my final hearing outcome after 2 and a half days, split between the week before last and this week.

Application CAO made in July last year
Ex parte NMO given against me in July/August
contact stopped with son for 7 months due to NMO
NMO discharged after 7 months
Cafcass recommend alternate weekends for me, despite evidence of contact every weekend and one day a week for last 8 years
Child taken on as child in need after Cafcass report
Hair strand tests found to be positive for 2 class A-mother after cafcass report

Anyway to cut a long story, Cafcass recommended a further day on top of alternate weekends, despite positive drug tests, child in need being freshold being met and school reports supporting father. Truly awful

Judge went in my favour awarding live with father and mother reverts to alternate weekends, half holidays shared. Amazing result after so long and battles with everyone especially cafcass and SS..

I will say more further on but keep hope everyone. managed to get a positive outcome despite NMO and negative cafcass reports. You can do it too.

Lots of people on here who supported me so thank you so much, especially Mojo who was always so kind, thoughtful and knowledgeable-thank you.

Holidays

I now have a court order that states for summer holidays they should be shared with mother the first week, and then alternated with me having 6th and final week of summer. However, mother was also granted an exception as she had already booked dates of 15th August until 23rd August. My concern is the 15th is on a Thursday of my 4th week. I am not overly worried but interested what others would do in this situation? Would you take back the days owed as such later in holiday so it remains fair and equal. Also my son breaks up on Tuesday 23rd July which means Mum misses one day. Is that just the way it goes or does this need to be addressed? Any experience of this would be much appreciated.

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SUCCESS STORIES! 3 weeks 4 days ago #99719

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To be honest, this is a oneoff exception - I wouldn't argue the point, it's not worth the hassle in my view for a couple of days when you've got everything you could wish for.

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